STILL ON CONTRACEPTIVES

Someone said they been using the withdrawal method since 2021… but the wife is pregnant again ….second time since they started withdrawing.

So, what is the withdrawal method and why is it so hard?

The withdrawal method simply means pulling out before ejaculation. It sounds very simple, but in real life, it is not easy. Someone once said it’s like jumping down from an overspeeding vehicle ….easy to say, hard to do.

As easy as it sounds, it is often very difficult to execute. This is because the time of ejaculation is usually the point of highest pleasure. Pulling out at that moment is like leaving a party just when they are about to serve food.

Of course , there is usually a sensation before ejaculation….the signal will be there but holding it back is like trying to survive the Hiroshima bombing.

The withdrawal method needs a lot of discipline and practice. The problem is that while you’re still “practicing”, you might end up getting her pregnant.

Many men often don’t pull out early enough. Even a small amount of healthy semen can carry enough sperm to fertilize an egg …that’s all it takes.

There are many other contraceptive options available that are safer and more reliable. Kindly talk to your doctor to help you choose the option that works best for you and your partner.

The withdrawal method is not for everyone and even “experts” can fail at times.